Rachel Kolisi has spoken out against online speculation surrounding her divorce from Siya Kolisi, calling out critics who chose gossip over support during one of the most difficult chapters of her life.
In a candid Instagram Reel shared earlier this week, Rachel addressed the wave of public commentary that followed news of the couple’s separation. Without going into specific details about the breakdown of the marriage, she made it clear that the emotional toll has been significant.
‘If you gossiped about how I handled one of the worst experiences of my life, instead of reaching out –you’re the loser in my story,’ she wrote.
Her message quickly gained traction online, sparking conversations about empathy, privacy and the pressures faced by public figures navigating personal challenges in the spotlight.
Rachel has previously been open about aspects of her journey, including through her book Falling Forward and her recent documentary work. However, she has chosen to keep the finer details of the divorce private.
The former couple, who share two children, have long been admired by many South Africans for their philanthropic work and public presence. Their separation has therefore drawn widespread attention – and, at times, intense scrutiny.
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Rachel’s latest response suggests a shift in tone: one that prioritises boundaries and calls for compassion over speculation.
As public discourse continues, her message serves as a reminder of the human reality behind high-profile relationships –and the importance of choosing kindness over commentary.
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