October marks the beginning of Pride Month in South Africa, a time to celebrate the LGBTQ+ community and raise awareness about the ongoing struggles they face.
While Pride Month is often a joyful occasion, it’s also an opportunity for everyone, regardless of their sexuality or gender identity, to reflect on how they can be better allies. Being an ally goes beyond flying the rainbow flag; it’s about taking meaningful actions to support the queer and trans people in your community.
In Cape Town, a city known for its diversity and acceptance, there are numerous ways to make a positive impact during Pride Month and throughout the year. Here’s your starter guide to becoming a true ally:
1. Educate yourself
Before you can be a supportive ally, it’s essential to educate yourself about LGBTQ+ history, issues and terminology. Attend workshops, read books and articles, and listen to LGBTQ+ voices to gain a deeper understanding of their experiences and challenges.
Organisations like the Triangle Project and Gender DynamiX in Cape Town offer valuable resources and educational events.
2. Attend pride events
Show your support by attending Pride events in Cape Town. The city hosts numerous pride related activities during October. Participating not only demonstrates your solidarity but also contributes to creating a sense of belonging for LGBTQ+ people.
Keep up with Cape Town Pride for the latest news on events.
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3. Support queer-owned businesses
Cape Town boasts a thriving LGBTQ+ community, with many queer-owned businesses contributing to its culture. Dine at LGBTQ+ owned restaurants, shop at LGBTQ+ owned stores or enjoy a night out at LGBTQ+ friendly bars and clubs.
Your patronage helps sustain these businesses and creates safe spaces for the community. Even just noticing and acknowledging when businesses are queer-owned is a good step to take.
4. Advocate for change
Take an active role in advocating for LGBTQ+ rights. If you want to take a political and social stand, join local organisations working to promote equality and inclusion. Attend meetings, participate in marches and support initiatives aimed at advancing LGBTQ+ rights in Cape Town.
You can also just advocate for change by engaging in meaningful discussions with the people in your close circles.
5. Be a good listener
Sometimes, the most meaningful support is offering a listening ear. Be open and receptive when LGBTQ+ friends or acquaintances want to share their experiences, concerns or challenges. Being there as a friend, and validating their experiences, can make a world of difference.
Also read: Tracing the journey of LGBTQ+ rights in Cape Town and South Africa
6. Speak up against discrimination
Challenge discrimination and bias whenever you encounter it. Use your privilege to amplify the voices of marginalised LGBTQ+ people. Encourage a culture of acceptance and inclusion among your peers, family and colleagues.
7. Support queer activists and organisations
Cape Town is home to numerous LGBTQ+ activists and organisations working tirelessly for change. Consider donating your time or resources to groups like the Pride Shelter Trust and the Triangle Project. Your support helps these organisations continue their vital work.
8. Ask about pronouns
Respect people’s gender identities by using their correct pronouns. If you’re unsure, it’s perfectly acceptable to ask politely. Creating a gender-affirming environment is a crucial part of being an ally. If you don’t understand what the deal is about pronouns, there are plenty of great online resources to educate yourself, like this one.
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9. Celebrate queer achievements
Highlight and celebrate the accomplishments of LGBTQ+ people in Cape Town and beyond. Recognising their contributions in various fields helps challenge stereotypes and promotes acceptance.
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10. Practice allyship year-round
Pride Month is a fantastic starting point, but allyship is a year-round commitment. Continue to learn, support and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights even after October has passed. Ask your queer friends how you can consistently be a better ally.
By educating yourself, attending events, supporting businesses, advocating for change and practicing acceptance, you can make a meaningful difference in the lives of LGBTQ+ people.
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Picture: Cape Town Pride Festival / Facebook
